Thursday, 31 January 2013

Hijabista...ader betul nyer kan....

pernah dengau beautifulnara tak??bukan premium beautiful la..tu barut membarut...ni website gossipppppppppppp..tapi not 100% lagha..ada yang entry dia boleh jadikan panduan :)

Tertarik ngan 1 entry abang nara ni..kes dia dpt email rasa kekecewaan..kekesalan dan maybe ketidaksukaan perasaan sorang reader ni..so dia email abg nara ni as medium dia nak sampaikan ape yg dia rasa..uolssssssssss patut baca...

bila aku baca ader benarnya....

"Dear Hijabista ( @hijabistamag) , Hijabister
I am writing to express my concern over the portrayal of ‘hijab’ women in
your magazine. I believe in the concept of modesty accompanying the
muslimah attire (the hijab included) is a fundamental core one must
embrace. The Hijab is not a replacement of the ‘hair’ we cover. The hijab
isn’t just a cloth or layers of cloth on your head. It comes with a
package. Of intellect, manners and adab. It is a symbol of the believing
women, her ‘modesty’- A sign of dignity and pride. Your magazine bears no
sign of ‘modesty’ and I say this clearly, this is definitely very WRONG!


Portraying hijab women and “doll-ing” them up like models in Vogue but then
only to cover her hair is an absolute disgrace and mockery to us the
believing women. What more the women and cover girls who allow themselves to
be exploited as an object and fool themselves into thinking they are on
their ‘Deen’ and pleasing Allah by just covering their hair… How can you
even think you are pleasing Allah with all that make up, ridiculous styles
whilst purposely showing off your beauty and body.


Your magazine just as the likes of vogue and cosmopolitan has NO
intellectual nor spiritual dimensions to it except to brainwash and create
an unnecessary desire to the ‘hijabisters’ to own more and more stuff. In
reality, a real, true believing women DOES not need to display her
adornments to entice others. The believing woman has self confidence that
what is INSIDE her heart and MIND will indeed be of much more value than
all the silly bangles, sunglasses, shoes and handbags you bombard the
pages of your magazine with.


Your magazine corrupts young, sincere minds into foolishly thinking that
they are more beautiful with more shoes, accessories or ridiculous tudung
styles they do not need.


The best garments as the Quran states is Taqwa. And tell me where, in which
page of your magazine do you propagate this message? None, not one I’m
afraid. It is clearly a consumer driven magazine casting a spell with
women, where one will then start to wish on owning and buying or to ‘copy’
the ‘Photoshop-ed’ girls you portray.


I am afraid you are only destroying the hijab sisters filling their minds
with superficial beauty. Please take a sincere step back and help many lost
sisters out there to care more about diseases of their hearts instead of
merely emphasizing a message of “what is important is how you look and tie
your tudung’
Sincerely,
A worried Muslimah"

ni maybe hanya pandangan dia..bila baca ada juga benarnya...cube korang amati dan pahami...yang aku suka ayat dia "doll-ing them up like models in Vogue" ..betul la..tgk cover mmg vogue the vasssssssssss...

so renung-renungkan dan selamat beramal....aku pun bukan nak cakap alim no..tapi sesetengah pendapat reader, team publisher kene amik tau jugak.... full article sila klik >> Luahan Hati seorang pembaca

Terkejut tgk wei...liyana ni kan host Safiyya TV9 tuh...lain benooo.....yay or nay???

Friday, 18 January 2013

Envy n Fake....

tengah searching cari artikel..jumpa plak artikel ni...bila baca..ada benarnya.benda ni pun jadik depan mata....uhuuhuh..sekadar renungan...


"Envy is a very common human feeling. It is natural to covet things other people have. Sometimes envy works in our behalf, by making us more motivated and willing to achieve, but other times it paralyzes us, by making us waste energy in negative feelings that are detrimental to our well being.

For some reason, human beings feel more envious when someone close to them has something they don’t have. Sibling rivalry comes to mind, as well as friendships torn apart with envy when life hands people different cards. Who doesn’t have friends who like us more when we are down? Or who disappear when something amazing happens in our lives? Why don’t we envy Bill Gates more than our friend Bill who bought the new expensive car? Why do we envy our childhood friend who married this amazing guy more than the Hollywood celebrity who just got married? Simple: we envy what’s closest to us. Somehow, we think that we deserve the same our sibling, best friend or co-worker has, because we see ourselves as similar to them, in the same level. Celebrities are demi-gods, unattainable, unreachable and far “superior” to us. They deserve what they have because of their special intelligence, talent or beauty.

I have already talked here about how envy between couples is harmful for the marriage and is completely opposed to the idea that marriage is a partnership.

It takes practice and maturity to accept that life isn’t fair, that people achieve different things, and that we will always meet people who have nicer things than we do. It takes wisdom to keep that negative feeling at bay and to be able to be genuinely happy for the lucky ones. Also, remember that life is full of surprises: your successful friend may one day have setbacks, and you may one day achieve the things you desire if you stop wasting time wallowing in envy."



Betulkan...kita ni jeles apa yang dekat ngan kita...kalau dari segi keje kita jeles ok..tapi jgn dari segi material...dengan erti kata lain...orang beli henpon baru kita pun nak beli henpon baru...orang beli kasut baru kita pun nak gak..lagi2 kalau nak gak patern yang same..tak ke envy nama nyeeeeeeeeee....dan orang yg jenis jeles ni absolutely orang yang Fake!! palsu semata..mata...


Jealous haters make us smile,
they spend their life cloning our style.
Nothin' better to do with their time,
they'll even try to copy our rhyme.


Be careful who you share your weaknesses with.
Some people can't wait for the opportunity to use them against you.


I don't trust anyone who talks bad about someone else to me,
they probably talk behind my back too.

Monday, 14 January 2013

Do What You Love...

korang penah tak dengar quote "Doing what you like is Freedom"..."Liking what you do is Happiness"... korang penah tak atau selalu tgk kat wall fb ader sesetengah orang ni keep complaining pasal diri dia...life...marriage...kids..contoh senang kalau pasal diri...keep complaining about weight la..dressup la..kalau pasal kids ngan marriage sebok citer pasal anak takde maid jaga la..laki duk jauh la..tak cukup tangan nak handle houseworks la..ada yang sebok mengejar kekayaan sampai lupa asal usul..sebok nak capai target tapi lari dari matlamat asal..so korang leh kaitkan tak quote tadi ngan situation ni?paham tak apa aku nak sampaikan??

Sampaikan ada yang aku tengok depressed...takde keyakinan diri...maybe ape yang kita rasa happy tak sama ngan orang lain..tapi percaya la..kalau kita sedih..kalau kita rasa diri kita gemuk..ada orang tak cukup makan tau...rasa murung ngan life kita sebenarnya ramai lagi yang kurang bernasib baik dengan kita tauuuu...Maybe ada yang happy dalam karier...tapi maybe masalah dalam rumahtangga...maybe ada yang tak berjaya...tapi anak-anak berjaya..


So no matter how you define happiness, yang paling penting apa yang kita buat kita mesti suka..love!!

1) Perlu tau ape yang korang buat tuh BETUL
2) Sentiasa BERSYUKUR
3) Buat BAIK
4) Spend masa dengan kawan
5) Ingat moment yang BEST
6) Rehattttttttttttt
7) Gerak...dengan erti kata move/do what you love!!
8) Sentiasa happy
9) Ikut rentak...dengan erti kata lain Get into the flow...
10) lastly...ingat!! don't Overdo It!!


Tapi kalau tengok-tengok balik kan...situasi orang banyak cam quote nih!

Most of the problems in life are because of two reasons:
1) We act without thinking or
2) We keep thinking without acting


Klu rasa stress gi shopping ok!!tapi ingat CASH jgn guna Card Credit!!